Sleeping his way to disaster
Here's some interesting news. Last night my dad found out the ex husband has got kicked out of work and his uncle is also threatening to kick him out of the house and he's possibly going Bangladesh for one week only cos his younger sister is marrying some bloke from the UK.
We don't know for sure, but the my dad was told that the ex husband has been drinking quite heavily and he's been taking these stupid sleeping tablets that make you go a bit funny in the head and I guess combined with alcohol its not a good combination. His uncle has been getting complaints about him from his boss at work. And this behaviour is not because of me, apparently some girl he's been seeing has dumped him to be with someone else. I think a trip to Bangladesh will probably do him a lot of good and clear his head a little. He really is sleeping his way into disaster.
The ex use to take these tablets when he was with me and it made him go wierd like he was drunk and not in his senses and he use to sing out loud. Once he sang when my dad was sat in the living room and asked why my dad's belly was so huge!
By the way i did send him some money for a new tooth and he even cashed the cheque, it sounds bad but i felt a lot better after that!
By the way to the person that suggested I only blog when I start getting people asking where I am - the only reason I've not been able to post more regularly is because I have been extremely busy at my mums, making sure the house is clean , dinner is on the table for my brothers and sisters and you know what it takes a whole lot of time to do all that, on top of that I got my own work to do as well. I don't mind doing it, my sisters have been getting a break from the household chores and are loving it.
By the way all my siblings know about Dante and they're all fine with it. My dad doesn't know and he doesn't need to unless we decided we want to get married at which point he'll be told. My cousin's an idiot for suggesting to have a little fun, I would have much prefered it if he just told me off, he doesn't really care about me or what my family will think, he's more bothered about what his friends will say to him more than anything else, but you know its OK for him and his friends to date random women every week whilst leaving their wives at home but they can't handle that I am in a serious relationship, but that's just typical of some people isn't it?
By the way am looking for a new housemate, Raeni has to go back to Jamiaca cos her mum has serious diabetes and needs to be taken care of. I'm gonna miss her cos she was great fun and we use to talk for hours on end, plus she was a clean freak like me so my house was never messy and she enjoyed watching bolly films with me. Been interviewing various people when i've had the chance, but am not clicking with anyone like I did with Raeni and that's really important. I interviewed this girl two-days ago, she's finishing her last year at university and doesn't want to go back home to her parents and she seemed great until she told me she was a proper party animal, loved wild nights out and had two boyfriends on the go thinking I would be impressed with list of party antics, but I don't fancy coming home to a party every night and I told her she'd have to find someone else.
Anyway am gonna sign off, i'll try and post a bit more often but until mum gets back I am literally tied to the kitchen!
Comments
Think you got a bit confused there love- party pooper means someone who doesn't really like partying.
And why start most of your paragraphs with 'by the way?'
Posted by: Anon | June 21, 2007 01:20 PM
Rugina
You are admitting that you are seeing this guy so, that, make you an adulterer, and if you call god with his beautiful name sattar he might not answer, I am not saying he won’t, but he might not; (Sattar) means who keeps embarrassment sins hidden, since you are committing bigger sins and telling people how much you are enjoying them. That is also an invitation for other Muslims toward adulteries.
Your are hoping to benefit from the field, which, is surrounded by Swarmed Locusts on your crops field and flies on piled fruits.
Common houseflies lay their eggs on rotting material--up to 100 per
brood. These hatch out into maggots, which feed on the place they've
hatched till they can become grown up flies.
A fly can carry four million microbes that cause hepatitis,
Salmonella, dysentery, typhoid, cholera, tapeworm, hookworm, and
More. Flies are major disease vectors in many parts of the world.
So you know you u get all sort of flies on your fruits if you pilled them on the market place never mind selling and benefit out of them.
Locusts has damaged the crops field throughout the history, fields from all over Sub-Saharan Africa, now they are even threatening Asia, when you go to Bangladesh you will see them at night under the light they gather in their thousands, it might looks friendly for now, but end of the day you don’t play with snakes a race of creatures will do damage to you without even benefit from it.
Listen to yourself you are like a confused unwanted creature, you will have probably long time consequences for this you might suffer god knows.
I suggest you keep your fruit unpeeled and use pesticide spraying and Follow the history and culture and do not become embarrassed for who you are where you are from.
God has created human into different nations and tribes. Therefore, we should be proud of our own tribes and nations.
Posted by: Jamila | June 25, 2007 05:58 PM
by the way, by the way, by the way...
Posted by: Sal | June 25, 2007 10:55 PM
gosh jamila!
how can you call her an adulteress??? she's not doing it behind her husbands back! besides she's separated and has filed for divorce!
Posted by: preeti | June 26, 2007 02:11 PM
Oh dear...this is why organized religion is Crazy!!!! Leave her alone Jamila! Is she in any way affecting your life??? If you don't like it, don't read it!!! Go preach about locusts to someone who cares!
Posted by: Ashley DaCosta | June 26, 2007 08:00 PM
Gosh jamila grow up! Rujina didnt say she wasn't own tribe and nation.
Whats wrong with dating men of other race than bengali. We live in the uk honey it's 21 century. Her sibling know about it and they're fine so let them be and enjoy one another.
Posted by: fahana | June 26, 2007 10:43 PM
A Muslim is recognised by his her deeds. All human are from our forefather Adam and his wife, we all were one nation and believers, look around in the world today, we have, believers, no believers, mushreq, Zaleem, munafeq, Murtad, and Faseq whom are committing sins in public and expressing themselves telling others how much they are enjoying doing the wrong things to put it right.
It’s not that there are not enough good people in the world, there are few wrong dowers and too many good people are not saying or doing anything about it.
A Muslim is S/he who force with his/her hands to stop when they see someone doing wrong things. If it is not possible than they should at least talk to the wrong dowers. If it is still not possible than they should be condemning with their heart and leave the place, that is the lowest level of believe.
It is not about race or colour analyse what I have wrote and think about it. If Rujina says she believes in god than she has at to prove it and Islam has it’s own recognitions,
Note; believers has always proven and succeeded doing the right things. Prophet Adam, Noah, Ibrahim, Musa (Moses) and Isa (Jesus) a.s. And final prophet Muhammad (saw) all the prophets and their followers had face trials and tribulations and they have succeeded and will inshaallah continue to do so, none of you can do anything about it.
Posted by: Jamila | June 27, 2007 10:54 AM
There are people who say they believe in God and day of the judgement, but in reality they are not mu’minun. (Final Testament)
When I say Rugina has at to prove that she is a believer, it’s not me or anyone else she should prove to except herself before her lord (lord of the existence)
It would have been wise for me to use the phrase Rugina has at to prove she is a Muslim rather than a believer, again not me or anyone else she should prove to except herself before her lord (lord of the existence)
Regardless of your religious knowledge some of you have mentioned Rugina is separated and filed the divorce form, therefore it is okay for her to have fun with a guy who is not at her husband.
I must say, it is logical to argue about something you know, but arguing about maters you don’t even know about? For your information, Islam does not recognise relationship outside marriage full stop. However, if someone does commit adultery and repent with regret then know that, God is most forgiving most merciful.
We human do make mistakes and will keep making mistakes throughout our whole life. God love those most, who realise their mistakes and ask for forgiveness and without any doubt they find God most forgiving most merciful.
I don’t know what is your message is Rugina and what benefits it will brings or going to bring to your readers. I urge you to analyse yourself and see if you can figure it out.
If you listen to majority of the people of the world, then, they will turn you away from dheen of God, because, majority of the people of the world follow their own desires and guess when they talk.
After receiving the Straight path (Quran and Sunnah) if you turn away then know that you will not have any friends or helpers.
God is most forgiving most merciful.
Posted by: Jamila | June 28, 2007 10:37 AM
How long did you said you have been married to this English speaking guy oh sorry it’s Bengali speaking guy a language you don’t even understand isn’t ? I forgot.
Posted by Rujina Begum on October 5, 2006 03:39 PM | Permalink Thursday October 05, 2006 I decided my destination would have to be Bangladesh and that is where I ended up in December. England waiting for him to join me in a couple of weeks. So that was December 2006.
The husband got his visa posted on Monday October 09, 2006 The Husband had his visa interview this morning, the blog posted date was October 5, 2006 and I'm just waiting to hear from him now.
Thursday February 01, 2007 the doors are locked and sealed! Posted by Rujina Begum at 15:46 | Permalink
We all know how long it takes someone to come to England from day one with married visa; we don’t need your opinion on that for sure.
Tell me something Regina; what is your message? This blog what is it about? What are you teaching people do you think it’s doing any good to anyone or even you?
Perhaps you are making money out of this, it has to be something, people just don’t write about themselves for nothing, especially against their own origin, writing about your father how he dates women randomly.
Making stories like your husband used to through religion at you all the time and get drunk in front of you; probably he got that from you I think.
Even if this blog doing any good to you and other spoiled rotten mushrooms, which, you cannot even distinguish between the harmful one and the one you are about to through away, to me they are all same poisonous, rotten and don’t deserve to stay in my community. I will also suggests the shop keepers not to serve them in my people.
Posted by: Mr Kamal | June 29, 2007 11:55 AM
This is disgusting...why cant you people go preach your crap to someone who cares.
And excuse me Mr. kamal...when did she ever say that her father ever dated anyone???
btw, A lot of people write blogs on themselves and dont get any profit out of it. I think you need to take your hate somewhere else....
It's the 21st century...Islam needs to get with the times and if people still want to live like its the 18th century..well then you shouldnt even be reading this blog..
Posted by: Ashley DaCosta | July 3, 2007 03:03 AM
I was not writing about Islam kid, have a look at the comment once again. This girl Rugina just got married and she already filled the divorce form!
She has mentioned she had this guy for over 3 long years and he go married, now if this girl is telling you the truth then why on earth he would do that. Then she says, its okay with her to marry someone else, which, she did for few weeks, because, it takes months before someone to come in UK. At this guy was taking sleeping pills. If some one come from work 2.30 am they automatically get tired and fall in sleep, they don’t need sleeping pills, unless you have a nagging headless wife who is like a leach, drinks someone else blood.
I don’t think this girl’s story true at all. The only think bother me is she put my community under spotlights. Every community has their own culture and secrets they don’t go and tell others how low/high their moral values to ones opinion their community is. Opinion is just an opinion nothing more than that, but, its harts other people, whom it concern. Certainly it is not your concern, because, Ashley DaCosta is not a benglai name and that make you some one who is outside of this community, therefore, you would not feel how others feel.
The only person needs to take their hates somewhere else is people like you Ashley. It is you Ashley who has hates for Islam.
I was not even talking about Islam, what I said was, Rugina said her husband used to through religion at her all the time at he used to drink, imagine someone come from Bangladesh where he born and brought up drinks alcohol just after marrying her only few weeks not even years, how is that sound.
I suggest people like you get out more and learn knowledge not just get some fancy papers from colleges. And learn to respect other communities around you.
I don’t think this girl, Rugina, knows much about her own community let alone love it’s people, otherwise why on earth some would write something like that.
Posted by: Mr Kamal | July 4, 2007 11:40 AM
I was not writing about Islam kid, have a look at the comment once again. This girl Rugina just got married and she already filled the divorce form!
She has mentioned she had this guy for over 3 long years and he go married, now if this girl is telling you the truth then why on earth he would do that. Then she says, its okay with her to marry someone else, which, she did for few weeks, because, it takes months before someone to come in UK. At this guy was taking sleeping pills. If some one come from work 2.30 am they automatically get tired and fall in sleep, they don’t need sleeping pills, unless you have a nagging headless wife who is like a leach, drinks someone else blood.
I don’t think this girl’s story true at all. The only think bother me is she put my community under spotlights. Every community has their own culture and secrets they don’t go and tell others how low/high their moral values to ones opinion their community is. Opinion is just an opinion nothing more than that, but, its harts other people, whom it concern. Certainly it is not your concern, because, Ashley DaCosta you are not even a Bengali, you are some one who is outside of this community, therefore, you would not feel how others feel.
The only person needs to take their hates somewhere else is people like you Ashley. It is you Ashley who has hates for Islam. I was not even talking about Islam, what I said was, Rugina said her husband used to through religion at her all the time at he used to drink, imagine someone come from Bangladesh where he born and brought up drinks alcohol just after marrying her only few weeks not even years, how is that sound.
I suggest people like you get out more and learn knowledge not just get some fancy papers from colleges. And learn to respect other communities around you.
I don’t think this girl, Rugina, knows much about her own community let alone love it’s people, otherwise why on earth some would write something like that.
Posted by: Mr Kamal | July 5, 2007 02:52 PM
Rugina,
You like it or not, you have to put all the comments in your blog, You can't choose your readers.
Posted by: Anonymous | July 6, 2007 09:43 AM
One day you officially hate men next thing you tell us you got a black big daanda (dante)
Posted by: Sara Khan | July 6, 2007 09:54 AM
Look Ashley if you dont like the Islamic posts dont bloody read it and dont bloody comment on it then just like u tell the 'haters' the same so just shut the eff up stop cryin lyka bitch and jus go read her blog and comment like ur up her arse and ignore the others then maybe u can live in the 21st century without a problem then. and also by the looks of things ur the hater in Islam u get so defensive. u tel us not 2 judge rugina wen we read her blog so dnt judge islam then jus cus u disagree with it
Posted by: anon | July 10, 2007 02:22 PM
I guess you had this coming. I think your a fake too mate, it's all too planned. Shame your boyfriend married someone else, shows he didn't love you, but to make this whole charade up, you have a screw lose mate, seriously, sort yaself out.
Posted by: Anon | July 10, 2007 10:32 PM